Morning Philosophy, Anyone?

Photo by Matthew Henry on Unsplash Early morning, every morning, I want to lay in bed, snuggle my husband, and just let love pass between us. I am in no hurry to move more than just what it takes to get closer to him. Almost every morning, I have an internal argument with myself as toContinue reading “Morning Philosophy, Anyone?”

How to Affair Proof Your Marriage

and it is easier than you realize. I have read so many articles claiming how difficult it is to be married and how much work it is to stay committed. I have read that there is no such thing as an infallible marriage. They are correct; however, I can tell you that it is possibleContinue reading “How to Affair Proof Your Marriage”

My Husband is Addicted to Plastic

and it’s not what you think. I hear wives complain about how their husbands spend so much time and money on hobbies. They whine about what husbands buy that clutters up their homes. Then when the husband creates a man cave to store his stuff they complain that he is always out in the garage.Continue reading “My Husband is Addicted to Plastic”

I don’t know how much money my husband has…

and I like it that way. It is true. I have no clue what my husband has in his bank accounts. I do not know the amount of his monthly income or investments. I know that he has enough money to cover his monthly obligations and keep us, along with my income, in the lifestyleContinue reading “I don’t know how much money my husband has…”

I decided to Trust My Husband

I know it seems that trust is supposed to be automatic. We see a new couple who appear happy and in love at the beginning of a marriage. They have a bright wide-open future in front of them. They say the words and we pray for them as they start a new life together. WeContinue reading “I decided to Trust My Husband”

I just Can’t Do This

Photo by Kinga Cichewicz on Unsplash It has taken years for me to come to terms with the fact, I have been emotionally abused. I am now in a place where I can talk about it. In my past, I had relationships that were on the surface wonderful and deep at the core, not good. FriendshipsContinue reading “I just Can’t Do This”

Relationship Suicide

Of all the things I know to be true, I know that a committed relationship whether you call yourself married or not can be a delicate thing at times. At other times it is strong enough to fool yourself into thinking that your relationship is indomitable. No relationship is immortal, married or not. Marriage givesContinue reading “Relationship Suicide”

A Lot of People Say It.

but do they mean it? Photo by Pixabay on I hear and see this on social media all the time, he/she is my best friend. Sometimes they are talking about a friend they have known a long time Sometimes they are talking about a person they are involved within a romantic relationship. That personContinue reading “A Lot of People Say It.”

I Like My Crow with a side of Humble Pie

I did something I thought I would never do. I got married, again. I am a self proclaimed expert on how not to be married. I told the world that I would not do it again, ever….never….nope never. Did I say I was never getting married?Yes, yes I did. My husband and I met whenContinue reading “I Like My Crow with a side of Humble Pie”